LOL you should really watch this, whoever came up with this really knows the procedures of breakups.

 

 

this was a picture taken during my birthday in march but hahaha, this reminded me i didnt blog about it.
im so lazy lah, but i eventually will.

i spent the entire day at home today. in the morning, dad & mom taught me how i can book my coach and stuff for genting cos i seriously have no clue, man, they're good lah. they have resources ( eg. namecards, who and who to find). then mom and i ordered 2 pax pastamania meal via home delivery and i finally had my spag, meatball! yumyum.
mom tried DIY dye my hair into dark brown/black today but i doubt the color would stay- it never did for my DIYs. now my hair is super dryyyyy.

b. came at night after his trg and buffet with our friends ( sorry guys, i cant go for buffets ytd or tdy cos i am having a weak throat and tummy). mom filled him with more details about hotel and off we go tomorrow, we're going to book a genting trip and going -- gasp-- next weekend, by ourselves! asked ken and pam & co but the couples cant go :(

i guess we're going to KL one of the days we're there and im glad cos after all the study-work-study period for this year, we're having a 3 days break on our own. I heard KL's f21 damn hugee but i think it's not going to be cheaper than SG :(:( ohwells.

huisyuans  sent me a white dress this week and i hope to wear one of them tomorrow! she has a new collection this week filled with dresses, so it's great for girls like me who's lazy to pair things up. it's already updated so quote my name for free normal mail, i think you already know this :)

ok i gotta go catch my ice age 2 before watching the 3rd on cinema. oh my i love that diego, the sabertooth tiger!

im going to dye my hair black and JS is obviously not very happy about it hahahaha. the roots are growing out and im so lazy to have to dye it every 2-3 mths, im just going to be a good girl for my final semester.

anyway, IM SO HUNGRY.........
i only had a meal today, i should really supper later ( like cook something to eat?) cos im craving to eat anything edible at all!


( shokudo )

got this video from beayty-savvy


bullsh*t

why cant he even act he cared?
why do you need so many people to represent you to tell how you feel and what's going on with the family when you're the father?
why are you even here introducing your so-called BLUE RAY record company?

let's not even talk about the assumption that people have been saying the kids are asked to be taken care by his family due to the inheritance they seek.

 

wenqi's asking me to pool in with her to share a stall @ the flea @ st james. I have alot of things to sell ( ie. new&preloved clothes, bags, makeup stuff) but basically im a lazy girl. however, i dun mind it as a girl's gathering, if we dun manage to sell it, i probably bring my game sets to play there ahahahaha. anyone wanna share with us ( girls only), please let me know.

[edit]: yeay, it's me, wenqi, sarah and her friend
if we manage to get a stall, we'll be setting up one, excited&&
we'll be doing up the stall and selling our stuff; new and preloved, will update when we confirm+chop stamp do get a stall!

talking about selling clothes, im super lazy to open my wardrobe because it's in a big mess. SUPER big mess. I just sold a dress i bought from rachel and i tell you, i super damn regret selling. it hides my tummy well after a 8 course dinner, but i just have to sell for the sake of going for a trip. I think b and i just decided on genting because he has an expedition plan coming his way so we can only take a short short break, bangkok's kinda out of the way and budget ( save save) for the meantime.



 

i like it for the heart shaped bust but i dont know, im just not the chiffon type of girl....

hahaha. so anyway, it's sold and i just have to say that this looks >$30 worth due to its great material, kudos to rach (:
i should stop impulse buying btw, eating me up already.
 

 

 

Got this from Grace's blog and thought it'll be interesting to 'pen' down.


How long have you been together?

Coming 1 year 2 months.


How long did you know each other before you started dating?

Close to a year i guess, I knew him during my first semester (june) and we only became together during my birthday.


Who asked whom out?

When we were friends, we hang out in a group of four. The first time we went out dating, I guess it was him?

How old are each of you?

I'm 22 and he's going 26. Hahahaha.

Whose siblings do both of you see the most?

My bro and him are like friends.

Which situation is the hardest on you as a couple?

Naturally it's time ( schedule) and money and my missy temper.

Did you go to the same school?

Yes currently, uni.

Are you from the same home town?

Yes , but many times people joked that he's malay/indian HAHAHAHA.

Who is smarter?

Better by grades, him. I think I'm smarter by experience.

Who is the most sensitive?

Me. I'm the weirdo :(

Where do you eat out most as a couple?

I hope to say coffee shop because it has the BEST BEST food but restaurant wise I would say we try everything. Fast food wise it has to be Mos and Carls Jr cos it's our fave respectively.

Where is the furthest you two have traveled together as a couple?

Cameron Highlands? Wahahaha!

Who has the craziest exes?

Me. My boyfriend has no ex.

Who has the worst temper?

Both :P

Who does the cooking?

Both HAHAHA. cos we cant cook for nuts, we only rely on instant food when we cook.

Who is the neat-freak?

No one :( But I'm more anal about placing things nicely.

Who is more stubborn?

Me, I have this thing about thinking that I'm always right. Habit hard to kick.

Who hogs the bed?

HIM. Doesn't even know he slept more than half of the bed when he's totally knocked out.

Who wakes up earlier?

Him. I lazy one.

Where was your first date?

My memory's failing me. I guess it's Orchard. Maybe School? HAHAHAHAA.

Who is more jealous?

We have our own share of jealousy but we really advocate the "trust" thing.

How long did it take to get serious?

I don't know about him ( i guess he always look and sound serious when it's regarding US ) but it took me quite awhile, about 6 mths?
When we quarrel big time nowadays, it becomes drama cos both of us are serious.

Who eats more?

Him, but surprisingly at buffets, I'm the last one to end eating.

Who does the laundry?

Mummies!

Who’s better with the computer?

Me with software, him with hardware. Both equally computer literate though

Who drives when you are together?

I drive him crazy, yes, most of the times HEHE.



 

my dear friends, they're back ! :)

am going to watch transformers tonight, finally!

if there's some purchase control mechanism in me, it would have been a faulty one. I spent so much today, I could be better off on a holiday. I went out with my best friend and we went both orchard and vivo, the places where we kept trying trying trying and buying buying buying. In the end, I surrendered my card to my boyfriend and think of ways to salvage my already-bursting wardrobe. I am just going to send some clothes to salvation army because its really a pity to throw them away. Either I think that the clothes that i've packed in the SA bag don't at all, fit me ( wonder why i buy, mostly online purchases) or it's just that i've cannot fit in them ( eg. size 36 denim) anymore.

my best friend tried rolling eyes to stop my purchases but i've been controlling too long- 6 mths without real life shopping cos i was just too broke then, and my boyfriend ( to my surprise) didnt scream at me. He said he understand how work and life's been eating me so he comforted me instead. I bought him a sweater because his needs washing, but I'm glad it fits him, credits to best friend who tried fitting in them.

We laughed while we shopped, but seriously, she knew what I am when I'm shopping. I like to shop on my tempo, usually we split ways to shop in store, wait for each other to try (if the other is not trying) and then go for a meal when we're tired/hungry after shopping. Whether it's budget shopping or pure store shopping, we're always in sync.

Let's begin with pictures shall we?

( shopaholic )

couldnt get to sleep and was having a bad case of cold.

im so glad to be at home and resting, instead of going to work at 9am everyday. it feels like i havent been home for so long. Bea's right, i'm not used to life like that( office).

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was having jason's birthday celebration just hours ago and he was having fun and im glad pam is taking good care of this boy. i used to dote on him quite a bit because he's really this sincere guy who gets "teased" but we all know pam is a good girlfriend and they make a good couple. I remember this sweet boy, along with zam, were the boys who made me smile during the times when i was going through a difficult period. I made them my "part time boyfriends (PTBF)". This guy even remembered i couldnt have a cake this year and along with the rest, bought me 21 cream puffs on my birthday this year and a pair of slippers because " i wanted and needed so" :)

happy belated birthday jason, you're everything that's so worth it and i believe you have a lot in you that you havent been showing.

 

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baby has been really tired these days. besides working for the weekends, he hasnt taken his break as his last day would just be the day before school started. we've been spending time together but he's just so tired. poor thing lah. I LOVE YOU ANWAYS big boy, let's go have your badly craved jappy food + marriott dimsum soon soon!

* * *

guess what? i koped spongebob's game of life today and played at jason's party and it was mad fun.
gonna play it again, anybody?

the photos have been resized with photoscape but i think it went abit crazy ( the software i mean) so photos look alittle off-color.


didnt take much of the event as i was immersed in watching the runway for the fashion show.
bought 2 dresses that day and 3 others online from the same runway. now i've 7 of their clothes in total haha.


the event went really well, as blogged on the day, and so, here're the visuals.

( while clothes are love. )

bea, rach, viola, me, velda and wenqi @ the bash.
credits to violaerin 

i look damn short here lor hahaha, but ive had fun there and then.

i have to leave office now so this is my only photo update. b. got me a new pair of crocs so im going to get a few jigbits @ MS! HEHEHEHE.

im a happy girl. gotten my pay and time to spend/save. I owe my main account half a thousand man, that's how much I've spent for the last 6 mths, even with pocket money. I'm a sucker for clothes. Still, i hope to buy some gifts for my loved ones especially my mom who always made sure i have something to eat before/during work.

:)

 

tomorrow!
my 2 events: spongebob 's 10th anniversary celebration and NFC FAMJAM! Rock & Walk went on very smoothly! Thank God!\
and now, i've to clear my outstanding payments for my online purchase- my grey denim bustier dress ( to dinner!) and a tube from BC. HAHAHA. man, i'm in debt.

and friends who want to meet me, PLS CALL ME!! i'm already cleared of my window period for H1N1 from butter fact and im away from work for some time! :)
i've pictures for BC's event tomorrow so stay tune!

If they're something that made me fat this month, it must be Spongebob Squarepants.

It's crazy, I've been working so hard and so long ( like OT almost everyday) just for him,

it's just his 10th anniversary event tomorrow!

(sponge) BOB you better make it all worth it!

 

it isn't good if you grow to LOOK like that 'someone..

" Hey you look like your boyfriend"
"................"

" Hey you grow to look more and more like your dog!"
"..................."


don't ever ever tell me i look like someone!
 

 

i was at butter on friday, 19 june and now butter is closed for a week, staff down with h1n1, others all under home quarantined and 9 party goers infected,

i seriously need to be room quarantined when i get home.

urgh.

but anyway, even when i was busy with my 2 events for this saturday and sunday,

 
huisyuans  made me happy by mailing me clothes to try on!
i will be wearing this for a date after my 2 events this weekend, seriously i do deserve a break.

this self-manufactured  f21 woven dress with crochet intricates make me happy, and i chose grey ( though i was thinking of getting white) because i hardly have the darker shade of grey.
not sheer cos it is double lined.

i have been eating too much but i doubt this dress will tell on me how much i put on :P

anyway, this dress comes in black, white, off white ( for people who love cream) and grey.
the straps are also with crochet-designs.

i'll do a detailed post next week, but this dress is on Backorder so if you're interested, pls visit
http://huisyuans.livejournal.com/13070.html


feminine details i so love :D

once again, you can quote 'Stephanie' to get free postage for any items on backorder! HEHE
 

i enjoyed BUMP @ Butter Factory date with my council friends ytd. It was crazy, seriously. I wish I can post photos but I need to get back on Monday for my laptop to do so! Bernie has this fab DSLR I cant stop laying my hands on, so i took more photos of my peeps than myself hahahaa i love to act professional.
other than that, i think i had quite a bit and went around telling pple  " I CAN SEE YOUR UNDERWEAR" because i kept seeing pple's downblouse or supershortskirt but i was totally in control unlike zhicao who went messing around with our sticky oily hair and pam who chained everyone to dance with but hey, that makes the bit of clubbin' fun and totally crazy! Bernie, in the act of being alittle tipsy, went around to pour vodka into everyone's mouth.

went after work and felt sticky & tired but totally enjoyed their company. Here's a little picture with kaixin and jerlin, credits to pam's cam :)

what happened afterwards was 2am when i wanted to go home bcos i had to attend Bonitochico's (BC) party the next day. The funny thing is when Abi had to go retrieve keys from jerline, which ultimately she can't, I burped into the grass patch i was sitting next to on the tiled edge and felt quite disgusted with myself, HAHA. I had a huge scolding from JS for drinking too much but guess what, I'm glad that I didnt puke though!!

then next morning, I woke up feeling really refreshed for Bonitochico and didnt feel much of a hangover. Cabbed to Raffles Town Club with wenqi and wah, we were at 169th though we reached there on the dot. Saw Selene and her sis and we went in together. Rach was super friendly though i never met her in real life before, she called my name though i was bending my head downwards ( hint: shy) and we said hi to the 3 ladies of the incredibly popular online store. I am so glad to see her though!

The food was good, since it's a standing lunch and I love bread pudding! Didnt take much photos because I'm shy and sometimes at a loss and kept within my girls and huijing. This woman went crazy when we saw each other and we couldnt stop talking because she's so fun to talk to. 

My babes took quite a few pictures with the girls but aiya, im so shy, i keep saying " it's ok" and jing took a few of mine with the girls with Viola's cam. I'm left with no group photos but at least I get to snap BC ladies with my friends. Viola, Velda and Rach look great that day, and they're marvellous hosts. :)

The catwalk went well and I bought 2 of BC's manufactured dresses and wished I got another one, which I am strapped for cash because my pay is not in yet. However, I bought them to support the ladies, who really worked hard for the event ( as well as to satisfy my impulsive purchase mood once again). I'll definitely be wearing them to the bash or wedding dinners that i'm invited to, so I do hope I can carry well in them.

And and,
Really glad to see a lot of familiar faces like joze and enrainz who called out for me cos i told ya, i'm seriously a very blur person who doesnt know a friend is around even when she's next to me. I met a few girls and just randomly talked to them too 'cos I was bored in the queue (LOL) before huijing joined me. I guess when I'm very shy, I tend to talk blabber quite a bit so pardon me. 

Really enjoyed myself and thanks to wenqi for allowing me to tag on her invitation as a guest. Thanks to Selene's chirpy nice dad for the ride back to the East!

Okay, i'm going to end here cos I havent washed my face since morning ( eeekk i know) so im going to now!

Pictures when I receive them from huijing and viola!

 

we're going for bonitochico's birthday party tomorrow (thanks to wenqi) and as for tonight, it's hopefully butter fact with council peeps.

i hope i can take many many pictures!!

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btw, you should really read this entry  by thedramadiaries 
ain't fairytales just as real as reality with that?

the old Mr. Teh Terik that most of us, Singaporeans who used to frequent, loved it.

Now it became a franchise of Teh Terik Cartel, which certainly had standards dropped, as I read from other F&B blogs. Tampines has a branch too, I heard. :)

For me, I still prefer the Limau Tea ( and the indian man would definitely want us to call that), which they now call it Iced Lime Tea. No more indian man at the store counter, so it kinda lost its flavor. Heard the one "terik-ing" is still the same indian man, though :)

Saw Tang there where she pointed where they shift to- Far East Square Store Lot space, instead of just that wooden pushcart you see in the image above.

The best thing is it's still reasonably cheap- $1.50 for the standard cup for iced drinks- which resembles your medium sized Macdonald's Beverage :)

 

 
i fell in love with that tanned guy,
the same guy whose back i first fell in love with in the lecture theatre,
that first guy i carried on my back,
and the chest that i always burrow in to find comfort when im in tears.

we have lots of differences, and it may not be the best relationship i have been in,
but we've dreams of building our own home, having our careers.
from the outside, we're 2 individualistic people,
but the inside, we yearn to weave our very independent lives into one that we can together hold.

baby, let's keep trying. 
love.